The power of attention
Tess Mallett
Couple Sessions
Love and Relationship
Are you ready to:
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radically transform your relationships
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free yourself and those you love
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relate with an undefended heart
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resolve triggers, inner conflicts and unhealthy patterns
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flourish in the freedom of loving beyond the conditions of the mind
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heal your heart and past relationship patterns
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up-level your communication and capacity to love
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learn the invaluable skills to come out of judgement, expectations, assumptions, blame, dependency and entitlement.
Relationship pain is one of the greatest challenges we face in life and an area that holds some of the most unconscious beliefs around what "love and relating should look like"
I am here to guide you back to a clean slate, so you can act from a true place in alignment with your heart. This is "living in love"
We are here this lifetime to embody the FULL freedom and joy of being ourselves and consciously sharing this recognition of love [ who we are ] with others. Self Intelligence and Emotional Intelligence is the critical key to consciously relate with others from a place of internal stability and self sovereignty.
It fills my heart with so much joy to show you how! The proof is in your experience.
Relational Intelligence
An invitation to radically shift your relationships to be free from:
drama
conflict
resentment
control & manipulation
games & powerplay
dependency
jealousy
projections
competition
fear
unhealthy behaviours
ego polarity roles
mistrust
insecurity
unconscious patterns from past relationships & childhood conditioning
These sessions are here to support conscious relating through the transformation of self enquiry and self discovery.
Because relationships hold one of the collectives highest values, this area of life is where we see the greatest pain points, triggers, fears and unconscious behaviours.
Our deepest levels of conditioning and fear live here, and also the fullest potential and expansion into true freedom and love beyond conditions.
I am truly in service to love and dedicated to supporting all types of relationship dynamics to come of:
fear, pain, drama and lack into abundant levels of
love, joy, play and true freedom!
What gets in the way of love?
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Not having the skills to work through triggers, projections and judgement.
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Responding from the ego who [ defends, justifies, has to be right, based in lack, attached to past stories and future projections ]
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Poor communication skills and not truly listening to the other.
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Believing the judgements and projections of your mind.
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Trying to control the other to meet the images of the 'ideal' way you think they should be.
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Lacking full independence and knowing what you want
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Suppressing freedom through conditions
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Dishonest sharing over radically honesty
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Fear of vulnerability and the grief of potential loss if you show up as your full, authentic self.
Sessions include
~ conscious exploration in ~
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Identifying and resolving pain points and conflicts
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Learning the skills of trigger enquiry, self enquiry and advanced communication to create greater respect and genuine connection.
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Transformational, experiential coaching processes to move beyond jealously, mistrust, judgement, insecurity and blame.
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Exploring 80+ relationship beliefs and seeking alignment with what feels true in your heart in relating dynamics.
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Connecting deeply with what your heart wants and knowing how to express that with radical honesty.
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Resolving relationship drama and unhealthy, unconscious patterns of relating.
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Learning how to not take the other 'personally'
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Opening your heart [ beyond your mind ] that is constricted from unresolved emotions and resentment.
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Reignite passion, intimacy and love through conscious connection activities
I am here to support you to learn the foundational skills to transcend painful and disrespectful relationship patterns so you can rest in the freedom of loving beyond the mind, from the naturalness of sharing your undefended heart.
This starts with your relationship with self ~ as primary. Then watch all your relationships reflect the shift in yourself!
packages
I offer 3 packages (Bronze, Silver, Gold) which differ in service, support and contact time per month, that all include both individual and shared couple sessions.
Get in touch if you would like to discuss packages, prices, my approach to sessions and how they can support you in your life and relationship, right NOW.
let's chat & connect
Tess has shown us how to come into a depth and maturity of relating that I didn't even know was possible!
She has taught us how to consciously move through conflict, triggers, blame, jealousy, fear and projections.
Our communication has had a complete overhaul and I am blown away by how radical honesty, sitting in vulnerability & asking questions about relationship beliefs we hadn't ever asked before was the ultimate undoing to our old, outdated patterns of relating and connection.
We have now come to a place of such freedom and clarity individually and together and feel ready for whatever life has to throw at us.
Thank you for shining a light back to love.
~ Stepth & Marc
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Poem
[ In service to Love ]
My most intimate
And truly profound
Moments of life
Have been spent
In the unfolding quiet
With you, my love.
For the space in which
We share together
I have come to know
Is one in the same.
The space in which
I love you
Is who I know
myself to be.
The place of seeing
Where limitations
are no longer
With not a single
edge in sight.
A natural state
of emptiness
Where the unending
Essence of love
is embodied
beyond the body,
Bearing fruits
of an unconditioned heart
That fulfils itself by
Giving all of itself.
Humble hearted
And here to serve.
The pure profundity
of my unwavering
love for you
Is a direct reflection
Of the depths
I have traversed
In my own tidal seas.
From diving deeper
Than the person
To come to
The true understanding
That beyond the waves
Of my minds creation
Is the infinite shore
From where I can
Drown in being,
Being breathed
In love
With you.
This love,
I’ve come to know
Transcends what a person
Tries to dream into being
Since love doesn’t
Create
Do
Try,
Or play games.
Instead,
it effortlessly is,
And blossoms
In the full fragrance
of Freedom
Where I have come
to rest in receiving
the breadth
and depth
of the infinite
recognised through
Living out love
with you.
For loving
Like this
One knows
In their heart
of hearts
This can only lead
To the collapse of
Everything that isn't real
And leaving all
that is true
To remain.
For I am in service
to love.
- Written for my love -